Support
The question isn't arriving
- Open the app. The Tonight tab shows a setup card if notifications are off, with a button straight to the right Settings page.
- Check the Moment is switched on (Moments tab → toggle on the right).
- Check Quiet hours (Settings). Moments inside that window are skipped on purpose.
- iOS Focus modes and Scheduled Summary can hold notifications back. Allow Kindling through, or set it to deliver immediately.
A question wasn't right for tonight
Swipe it left, or tap Pass. That question is retired for good and will never come back. Swipe right to keep it in Favorites; tap Undo within a few seconds if it was an accident. Ask another way shows a lighter phrasing of the same idea. if they shrug… reveals a follow-up.
Kid-safe lock
Settings → Kid-safe lock. While on, every deck stays child-friendly and the Couples and Friends decks are locked. Turn it off for adult-only conversations.
The Full Deck purchase
- What's free: the Family deck with 40 hand-picked questions, plus moments, notifications, swiping, favorites, export, and the kid-safe lock.
- What the Full Deck adds: the Kids, Couples, Friends, and This House decks, and questions that never run out. One purchase, no subscription.
- New phone or reinstalled? Settings → Restore Purchases. The Full Deck follows your Apple Account, and Family Sharing is on.
- Refunds are handled by Apple at reportaproblem.apple.com.
Starting over
Deleting the app removes every question, favorite, and schedule. There is no account to close.
Something else
Email support@kindlingquestions.com and describe what happened, including your iPhone model and iOS version. Every message is read personally, usually within a day.